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[ Follow Ups ] [ Post Followup ] [ The Forum Board ] [ FAQ ] Re: Nice Guy vs Hard Ball Posted by damien on November 11, 2003 at 9:43 PM In Reply to: Nice Guy vs Hard Ball posted by Lughead on November 11, 2003 at 9:01 PM : hello : just curious for people's experiences - : we have a couple of rentals and for some odd reason it seems if we are lenient and kind that people interpret this as weekness : yet if we are 'jerks' then they seem to respond : granted this is not a 100% correlation, yet unfortunately it seems to be true more often than not : we are asking to help decide if we need to take a firmer stand in general or not ... : thank you Lughead, People expect the landlord to lay down the rules and stand firm by them. If you change this factor you will not only be stressed over the situation but it's in a way unfair to the tenant. Think of it as a child parent relationship. Parents that want to be friends to there kids have bad kids. At the time it seemed cool, but when all said and done you did them no favors and instead you had the exact opposite effect on them, thus creating an unfair situation for them. Thats just my 2 cents... Damien Follow Ups: Post a Followup: Name : E-Mail : Subject : Comments: : : hello : : just curious for people's experiences - : : we have a couple of rentals and for some odd reason it seems if we are lenient and kind that people interpret this as weekness : : yet if we are 'jerks' then they seem to respond : : granted this is not a 100% correlation, yet unfortunately it seems to be true more often than not : : we are asking to help decide if we need to take a firmer stand in general or not ... : : thank you : Lughead, : People expect the landlord to lay down the rules and stand firm by them. If you change this factor you will not only be stressed over the situation but it's in a way unfair to the tenant. Think of it as a child parent relationship. Parents that want to be friends to there kids have bad kids. At the time it seemed cool, but when all said and done you did them no favors and instead you had the exact opposite effect on them, thus creating an unfair situation for them. : Thats just my 2 cents... : Damien Optional Link URL: Link Title: Optional Image URL: [ Follow Ups ] [ Post Followup ] [ The Forum Board ] [ FAQ ] WWWAdmin 2.0a © 1997 Matt Wright and DBasics Software Company, All Rights Reserved

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